A British couple known for their participation in swinger cruises has clarified a prevalent misunderstanding about this distinctive lifestyle. Olivia, 31, and Gage Masterson, 32, from Lincolnshire, have been married for 12 years and are well-known figures within the swinging community. Five years into their marriage, Olivia candidly shared with Gage her bisexuality and her desire to explore more. After numerous discussions, they decided to venture into swinging—often referred to as the Lifestyle—which typically involves a ‘secret signal’ for those interested in joining.
We’ve formed strong friendships with some of our swinging partners; we talk daily, Olivia shared with iNews. However, there’s a subtle distinction between swinging and an open relationship. For us, swinging is primarily sexual while an open relationship encompasses emotional connections too. She emphasized that both she and Gage agreed to maintain emotional monogamy. We make it clear to new acquaintances that we’re not looking to ‘date.’ We’re simply interested in exploring our sexual desires and kinks. While we can still form friendships and bonds with others, they won’t be romantic.
Gage has since taken on the role of CEO at SwingHub, a dating app catering to the lifestyle community as they continue discussing their experiences. Through various swinger cruises over the years, they’ve dispelled the myth that swingers indiscriminately engage in sex with anyone. On the Sail Away: Uncensored Cruise Podcast, Olivia stated: When you mention being in an open relationship to those who aren’t familiar with it, they often react by thinking things like ‘oh no, she might steal my husband’ or ‘since she’s bisexual, why hasn’t she approached me?’ But honestly, we are incredibly selective; if anything we’ve become even more discerning through our experiences.
Gage chimed in: Even when you’re single you still have your standards right?
